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Shadow Body Rituals


"Every one of us casts a shadow"
"Sexuality is beautiful, pure and sacred"

The ancient Tantra teach that there are 3 main paths to achieving sacredness, enlightenment, and full inner liberation. They are:
- spiritual practices / kundalini / meditation / prayer
- conscious sensuality / conscious sexuality
- full integration of shadow - our unconscious / hidden psycho-emotional-sexual desires.
The Black Tantra teaches that these three paths must be combined so that the inner transformation would be complete and would give mystic, deep bliss and true inner freedom.

The practices that we now call Dark Eros, Shadow Tantra, Tantric BDSM and Kink,  are found throughout the centuries-old tradition of Black Tantra and in all the cultures that existed and exist on earth. In all tribal, spiritual and shamanic traditions, throughout the ancient world as well as in contemporary Christian Western cultures. They were glorified as the strongest practices with full contact with the body and the gate to self-consciousness. As the essence of ecstatic, transforming rituals, releasing deep, internal blockades. As the path of sacred sexual practices and rituals which integrate the inner, psycho-sexual shade.


The commonly opinion of Tantra and tantric sexuality says that sexuality must be warm, sensitive, conscious, preferably in the position of YabYum, in full presence and loving,  in order to lead to self-knowledge, enlightenment and fulfillment. And all this is true, but not entirely true.

If sex has to become your deepest prayer, spiritual and mystical practice, to give you transformation, enlightenment, liberation, and consciousness,  first it must be true. This kind of sex which you really want. The one you desire the most in the world! In harmony with yourself, with the knowing of needs and desires, in openness to your deepest fantasies and to wild, individual expression. It must be your own. It must delight you. Only then it will become love, meditation and a beautiful, spiritual ritual. Think for a moment, what you want to try, what you desire the most . In what practices do you want to develop your spirituality? Is it actually supposed to be the path commonly understood as Tantra? Or maybe not only that? Maybe you want something completely different? In a completely different scenery? In a completely different way? Maybe you want to take a whip, or feel it on your body? Perhaps you want  fulfillment  in loosing control, "enslavement", in bonds and in such emotions? Do you dream about personating sexual roles, plays, scenes and of identity changes? Or about costume playing and non-standard sexual identification? Or maybe about power exchanging and taking over sexual control? Whatever you dream of - it may be your own tantric sexuality, if only so you think about it. Consciously, with understanding, respect, and with spiritual / development intention.
The Black Tantra worships all forms of human sexuality, if they are practiced by mutual consent. It meets these beautiful desires and creates a safe space for this path of development.


- deepens ecstatic and conscious contact with the body,
- deepens spirituality and full self-consciousness
- develops the understanding of sexual energy as a complete creative power for all aspects of self,
- releases tensions, stresses and eliminates internal blockages in the body and mind,
- teaches you to love and fully accept yourself,
- frees you from shame and fear of your own sexuality,
- helps you to learn your true fantasies, desires and sexual needs,
- helps you to fully reconcile with your fantasies, desires and sexual needs,
- helps to create a warm and agreeable relationship with your sexual nature,
- allows you to bring space of acceptance and tranquility into your desires and in your sexual expression,
- teaches to accept the body as what I am, not what I have,
- allows you to define your full sexual orientation,
- lets you know your fully oriented sexual drive,
- frees from universally accepted beliefs about sex, sexuality, body,
- helps to get rid of often harming concepts of fairness / normality / abnormality of desires and sexual behaviors,
- allows you to change your personal assessment of principles and ethical / moral norms regarding appropriate / inappropriate expressing and experiencing of your sexual needs and desires,
- it helps to create a state of full consent for personal sexual desires, even if they go beyond accepted "norms"
- helps to create and adopt a personal "code" for expressing one's own sexuality and social functioning within one's own sexual needs,
- opens for life in love