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Shadow Healing


Shadow Sexuality is an entire sexual taboo present in your social and cultural life. It's everything that's secretly attracting you. Your desires and fantasies about which you dream for ages, and to which you are often ashamed to admit to yourself. Those to which you are afraid to say YES! Even when no one sees it. It's about all of the sexual identities which are not proper to dream about. It's all sexual roles, plays with social status and desires which you want to try and experience in a safe, creative, deep and developmental way.
Black Tantra teaches that all these fantasies and desires are beautiful, good, clean and human. Normal. Natural. We all have them to some extent. And instead of crowding or blaming them, It's worth openly learn, familiarize and integrate them, instead of denying or blaming them with shame.  It’s worth looking for self-consciousness, fulfillment, self-consent and deep spiritual power in them.

What can we work with?
- Kink as ancient tantric practices
- Kink - an integral part of ancient and shamanic, initiation cultures
- Kink as a daily activity of many people in the world - interpersonal, natural, ordinary, popular and joyful
- Kink, that is non-normative sexuality, not procreative, directed to the development and deepening of self-consciousness
- Kink and BDSM Sexual Act

Compliance and self-consciousness:
- experiencing personal sexuality as pure and sacred
- deepening of internal and conscious consent for one's own sexuality
- broadening your sexual awareness,
- getting to know and accepting your sexual identity
- accepting yourself in non-normative sexuality, not procreational sexuality
- learning sexuality of emotions and psyche – sexuality beyond genitals
- getting to know your own fantasies and deep sexual desires
- crossing and dissolving internal barriers and shame about sexuality
- dissolving the feeling of guilt for one's own sexuality
- building / recovering your self-esteem based on your sexuality
- drawing strength and fullness from one's own sexual identity

Role Play / Age Play / Gender Play / Fetish
- impersonating the sexual identities, impersonating the sexual roles
- Role Play - sexual becoming - not a sexual theatre
- sexual becoming as a deep inner practice / path to growth
- playing with age and social status
- impersonating opposite gender roles
- getting to know your inner femininity and masculinity
- disguise into the opposite sex
- fetish games of selected parts of the body / costumes / places desired for sexual development

Power Exchange:
- learning and understanding the dynamics of domination/submissiveness relationship
- taking care of yourself and each other in the sexual power relationship
- serving and fulfilling desires
- issuing orders and taking over control
- safe rewarding and punishing
- binding and enslavement
- secure submitting of the control
- respect for mutual borders
- open communication and safe word

Conscious Sadism and Masochism:
- sadism and emotional masochism /psychic/ phisical towards yourself or others
- emotional, psychic  and phisical suffering as life and driving force 
- consciously oriented sadism / masochism as development and supporting power
- unknowingly directed sadism / masochism as chaotic and destructive power
- receiving and offering pain as spiritual and developmental practices of ancient temple
- mysticality / transformation of accepting and measuring pain
- conscious energy management in offering and receiving pain
- SSC principle (sane, safe, consensual) - safely, consciously and with consent
- RACK principle (risk aware consensual kink) - responsible risk awareness

Edge Play as Spiritual Initiation:
- elimination of the senses - covering the eyes / limiting speech and hearing
- sensory deprivation
- breath control/playing ith breath
- safe "smothering" - directing sexual energy in the body and triggering endorphins
- blood fetish as a spiritual experience, sacrifice and / or initiation - playing with needles - Needle Play